 
{"id":3110,"date":"2025-06-26T23:55:11","date_gmt":"2025-06-26T23:55:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/?p=3110"},"modified":"2025-07-07T07:29:21","modified_gmt":"2025-07-07T07:29:21","slug":"meet-a-wounded-healer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/?p=3110","title":{"rendered":"Meet a Wounded Healer"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"825\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Conal-2016a-1024x825.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Conal-2016a-1024x825.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Conal-2016a-300x242.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Conal-2016a-768x619.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Conal-2016a.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>GOING THROUGH DARK TIMES: <\/strong>Therapist Con Healy (pictured in 2016) has endured depression, anxiety, grief\/loss and PTSD.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>By therapist <strong>Con Healy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">As someone who has walked the path of healing from my own wounds (depression, anxiety, grief\/loss and PTSD), I have found that these experiences shape the way I relate to others in my counseling practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Having faced pain, adversity, and the work of recovery, I recognize how these chapters in my life have deepened my empathy and attuned me more closely to the struggles of my clients. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I strive to offer not only understanding, but also a sense of genuine connection, using my own journey to foster an environment where others can feel truly seen and supported. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am a wounded healer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do wounded healers bring more empathy to their counseling practice? Yes, I believe they do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Their own experiences of pain, trauma, or adversity can deepen their understanding and compassion for clients\u2019 struggles, allowing them to connect on a more profound level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This enhanced empathy enables wounded healers to validate clients\u2019 emotions authentically, foster trust, and create a safe therapeutic environment where clients feel heard and understood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Research and expert commentary highlight that these personal experiences, when integrated and processed, act as an \u201cempathetic bridge\u201d between the counselor and client, facilitating genuine reflection and support. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Clients frequently report feeling less isolated and more accepted when working with counselors who have navigated similar challenges, as these counselors can normalize struggles and model resilience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:43px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\">Contact: 0438 559 515. Email: wisdomwithwhiskers@gmail.com<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:36px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/PXL_20210221_021619759PORTRAIT-v-Copy-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-928\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/PXL_20210221_021619759PORTRAIT-v-Copy-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/PXL_20210221_021619759PORTRAIT-v-Copy-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/PXL_20210221_021619759PORTRAIT-v-Copy-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/PXL_20210221_021619759PORTRAIT-v-Copy-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/PXL_20210221_021619759PORTRAIT-v-Copy-1152x2048.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/PXL_20210221_021619759PORTRAIT-v-Copy-scaled.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>GOING GOOD: <\/strong>Therapist Con Healy learned to survive and thrive.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><br><strong>Sources:<\/strong><br>https:\/\/www.psychiatrictimes.com\/view\/nurturing-resilience-in-the-wounded-healer<br>https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/ca\/blog\/the-empowerment-diary\/202201\/are-you-a-wounded-healer<br>https:\/\/www.thecarlatreport.com\/blogs\/2-the-carlat-psychiatry-podcast\/post\/4701-wounded-healers-empathy-and-archetypes<br>https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1080\/15401383.2022.2146027<br>https:\/\/reflexitycounselling.co.uk\/2024\/03\/14\/the-counsellor-a-wounded-healer\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\">Email: wisdomwithwhiskers@gmail.com<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having faced pain, adversity, and the work of recovery, I recognize how these chapters in my life have deepened my empathy and attuned me more closely to the struggles of my clients.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2361,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[196,172,144,215,4,1,23],"tags":[8,16,15],"class_list":{"0":"post-3110","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-anxiety","8":"category-dark-days","9":"category-depression","10":"category-grief","11":"category-my-story","12":"category-uncategorized","13":"category-wisdom-with-whiskers","14":"tag-counselling","15":"tag-pain","16":"tag-recovery"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3110","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3110"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3110\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3185,"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3110\/revisions\/3185"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2361"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3110"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3110"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wisdomwithwhiskers.com.au\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3110"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}