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International Men\u2019s Day, November 19, 2022<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Launched in 1999, and now celebrated in more than 90 countries worldwide, International Men\u2019s Day is going from strength to strength. International Men\u2019s Day celebrates positive male role models and the loving strength that men bring to their families and communities. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

International Men\u2019s Day organisers want to highlight the need to address the male suicide crisis and often campaign for improvement in men\u2019s health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of the six pillars of International Men\u2019s Day is: \u201cTo focus on men\u2019s health and wellbeing: social, emotional, physical, and spiritual.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All the other five pillars also aid men either directly or indirectly. In this light, the theme for IMD 2022 is \u201cHelping Men and Boys\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr Warren Farrell, co-author of The Boy Crisis \u2013 Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It, said: \u201cBoys are declining in a dramatic way in virtually every key metric\u2026 that\u2019s what the Boy Crisis is
all about.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Brenda Hafera, in a Heritage Foundation article, says this: \u201cThe Boy Crisis\u2026 tells the staggering story of how our young men are being left behind. By the eighth grade, 41 percent of girls are at least proficient in writing, compared with just 20 percent of boys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Men now earn 39 percent of college degrees while the median annual earnings of a man with a high-school diploma have dropped 26 percent in the past 40 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“The consequences are dire. Fifteen- to 19-year-old boys commit suicide at four times the rate of girls.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As civil-rights activist and community-development leader Robert Woodson says, \u2018If you devalue your life, you\u2019ll either take your own, or you\u2019ll take someone else\u2019s.\u2019 Our young men, he adds, are “dying in acts of self-hatred.” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“The absence of fathers \u2014 this includes the fact that they do not get equal time with their children \u2014 is the primary driver of the boy crisis. Both mothers and fathers are indispensable and contribute uniquely to raising children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“With 40 percent of children born out of wedlock and custody laws favouring mothers, more children are missing Dad\u2019s, rather than Mom\u2019s, influence. Just some of the effects of dad deprivation include higher rates of suicide, drug use, violence, hypertension, poverty, lack of empathy, and ADHD.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cassie Jaye, the director of The Red Pill, said in her TEDx talk with over 10 million views: \u201cAfter years of
researching and fact-checking, what the men\u2019s rights activists were telling me, there is no denying that there are many human rights issues that disproportionately or uniquely affect men. Paternity fraud uniquely affects men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Workplace deaths: disproportionately men. War deaths: overwhelmingly men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Suicide: overwhelmingly men. Sentencing disparity, life expectancy, child custody, child support, false rape allegations, criminal court bias, misandry, failure launched, boys falling behind in education, homelessness, veterans issues, infant male genital mutilation, lack of parental choice once a child is conceived, lack of resources for male victims of domestic violence, so many issues that are heartbreaking, if you are the victim or you love someone who is the victim as a result of any one of these issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“These are men\u2019s issues. And most people can\u2019t name one because they think, ‘Well, men have all their rights; they have all the power and privilege’. But these issues deserve to be acknowledged. They deserve care, attention, and motivation for solutions. Before making The Red Pill movie, I was a
feminist of about ten years, and I thought I was well-versed on gender equality issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“But it wasn\u2019t until I met men\u2019s rights activists that I finally started to consider the other side of the gender equality equation. It doesn\u2019t mean I agree with all that they\u2019ve said. But I saw the immense value in listening to them and trying to see the world through their eyes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Warwick Marsh from Australia, coordinator for www.internationalmensday.com, said, \u201cOur mission this year is to help individuals, families, churches, communities, small businesses and corporations, including NGOs and governments, to work together to help men and boys. On the IMD website, we provide suggestions on how to celebrate International Men\u2019s Day, and how to get your local community involved, create a community event and\/or special award ceremony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“November is an important month for the masculine soul, because it celebrates several events that are
important to men. Movember is the month dedicated to supporting men\u2019s health. The day following International Men\u2019s Day, 20 November, is International Children\u2019s Day, which forms 48 hours of celebration for men, children and the special relationship fathers have with their children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“We urge you to get together with some friends and celebrate International Men\u2019s Day on 19 November.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n